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The First Child I Saw, Standing In His Story :: Compassion Trip to Dominican Republic (Day 0) #UnscriptedCompassion

By Bonnie Gray • February 15, 2015 • 6 Comments

(At the end of today’s blog post, I’m sharing the first video in the Dominican Republic taken just now! I forgot my tripod (boo-hoo!) but I’m making do with a “Selfie Stick” Hubby Eric bought for my Valentine’s Day to take with on this trip! Watch this amazing story taken on Day 0 Sunday in the D.R. I’m calling tomorrow Monday Day 1, since that’s when I’ll be going “in the field”!)

“preach the Gospel and if necessary, use words.” st. francis of assisi

every story matters. give people your heart.
simply be present & free hearts
to be loved, heard and seen.

The first child I saw in the Dominican Republic — as we drove out of the airport — was a little boy standing on a street corner.

He seemed to be standing unnoticed in the middle of his story, a woman passing him by — his father hanging wares for sale — strangers & a broken sidewalk, characters in his young history.

Will we become the voice to a little boy or girl who whispers to him or her —

I see you. I hear you.  I love you.
Sweet child, I love you because I know what it’s like to be loved, seen and heard by Jesus.  
This is why I’m sponsoring you…

The First Dominican Mom

The first Dominican woman I met was a mom, with her daughter, sitting next to me on the flight over.

When I told her I was visiting D.R. for the 1st time w/ @Compassion to write about the children in poverty waiting for sponsors, she told me:

1) it’s dangerous in the D.R. with theft/crime at a high because people are so poor. that is why I’ll see men (keeping the law) dressed in camo w/rifles patrolling the streets — to discourage crime.

2) don’t walk down the street by myself.

3) the police here are corrupt — she & her husband got pulled over for a random reason and would be taken to jail if they didn’t “help out with some money” (they paid)

4) parents who are workers cannot afford to send their kids to school because they don’t have money to buy pencils, notebooks. most of the people are living in poverty (25% of the population) & live day to day.

There are corner stores called colmados where people buy just 1 garlic clove (!!) or just enough rice for 1 meal. pPeople buy one day’s meal at a time.

She told me children we help sponsor are going to really be helped & she thought it was amazing what we are doing!

 

I Couldn’t Believe This

And guess what?

A guy sitting across the aisle from the Dominican Mom and me heard us talking.  And he started telling me his story: he came to the U.S. when he was 17 & now he is a truck driver with a wife & three young children under 7 but he is so thankful to God, he asked me to email him info BECAUSE HE WANTS TO SPONSOR a child (!) & can I send him information to sign up with Compassion!?

I couldn’t believe it!  Here this young dad responding God’s prompting — because he experienced God in his story. How inspiring is his faith!?

(don’t worry friends, i am well taken care of & safe w/Compassion’s amazing team and hospitality (super established in the region))

My First Video in the D.R.!

Click to watch this video: (Day 0) Francimar’s Story… so blessed to hear her story… could God be touching you to enter into a little boy or girl’s story and be present too? Consider it. Sponsor a child with Compassion!

(note: I mention in the video I wanted you to hear about Francimar’s drums, but I ended our conversation w/out making sure to ask her about it.  oops!  and the nearby kitchen added “sound effects”… sorry… thnx for the grace!)

day0-Francimar Compassio

Sponsor a new child using my link & get a special Lisa Leonard You Are Very Loved Necklace made just for my #CompassionBloggers trip. #everystorymatters #UnscriptedCompassionScreen Shot 2015-02-11 at 9.46.28 PM

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  • Reply Jan McCorkle February 16, 2015 at 7:45 am

    I love that you, Bonnie, are so excited to share The Children’s Stories…that you literally “hit the ground running”… With sharing Francimars’s story. What a blessing! What hope you are bringing to the people there. Just knowing that there are some similarities in your story to Francimars’s , may offer her hope and comfort that you too have experienced similar pain, and that God is using both of your stories to touch others.
    Covering you and the team in prayer! Thank you for “taking” us with you to the D.R. ~Hugs~

  • Reply Liz February 16, 2015 at 2:41 pm

    HI Bonnie,
    THANK YOU!!! For representing all the sponsors to those precious children. Know that you made a difference in Jesus’ name.
    With love and hugs,
    Liz

  • Reply Kathleen Genung February 16, 2015 at 6:29 pm

    Thank-you for visiting the Dominican Republic and sharing your trip with us. I sponsor a young girl there, named Aidaliz. If you see her, tell her that I love her! Thank-you!

    Kathleen

  • Reply Renee February 16, 2015 at 7:10 pm

    So amazing. We are praying for your journey…

  • Reply Sandra Heska King February 17, 2015 at 11:08 am

    Beautiful, Bonnie! You are so perfect for this. Your hard story has prepared you for this moment. I love you big. (Hugs to Jean Carlos1)

  • Reply Esther February 17, 2015 at 6:44 pm

    I love that you point out that it doesn’t change the divorce or abandonment or loneliness or…but Jesus inside our stories loves us through them and so enables us to grow, to heal, to pour out his love and compassion to others.

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